Jay had definitely to put his feelings in order before moving steps with Ian or with anyone else. He was just in the same situation he had been with Emmy, he was not going to play with anyone's feelings and that included Ian, and himself. When he had his mind in order, then he would be able to think about what was happening to him with Ian, and how he had let the boy make moves on him so easily.
When he named Padua, Jay's eyes sparkled, and they Sparkled even more when he then named Venice.
"Oh, awesome" he said with his eyes sparking and a bright smile on his lips "Would you bring me to Venice? Huh, I think I will love our time there" he added with a soft chuckle.